TRAIN UP A KNIGHT

I have been called a feminist by some, and instigator by others, a talkative by some and a preacher by others... I won't defend or justify myself here. You know why?

It is because my aim for writing, is to call your mind to work and create a change😊

That said, let's begin...

Who is a parent?

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A parent is one responsible for the upbringing of a child... A parents is a figure that affects the psychological construct of a Child. A parent, consciously or unconsciously, affects the mindset of his or her child, for better or for worse.🤷🏼‍♂️

This means that you don't have to be someone who has given birth before you are a parent right? As long as you have a child who looks up to you as a partial figure you are a parent... But for tonight we want to focus on those parents who have given birth😊....

This series of Letter to my parents has a lot to say... 

I will use the analogy of a dramatized text as always to try to drive home my point... Please stay with me.

Dad: Bia this woman... You still haven't finished my food abi? You are looking for another round o... If you like use Charles as shield, I will beat the two of you mercilessly...😡😡😡😡

Mum: you will not eat in this house o... Go back to those your yeye friends o... That your mistress let her give you food for your stomach too na🤷🏾‍♀️😡😡😡 it's not only the other food😡🤷🏾‍♀️ 

Stupid Man!!

There is nothing worse than venting your anger on your wife in front of your child... Don't get me wrong I'm not saying that it is good to vent your anger on your wife in terms of beating on the first instance🤷🏼‍♂️ but worse of all, in from of your child... Let your child learn love first from seeing you show it to your partner...

Train up a Knight people and not a TOUT

Also, wives, the bible says *"parents, provoke not your children to wrath..."* but I say to you today, as much as lieth within thy power, provoke not your husband to wrath. You two have become one flesh remember? So if you bear this in mind that you hurt yourself when you hurt your partner, then you will not want to hurt them or provoke them.

Live and talk through your differences but leave your children out of it.

This is the little I have to say now. Remember that it is a better testimony when your child says "my Dad has never hit my mum," than for him or her to say 

"oh! That's like their own love language"

Be your child's model😊

Train up a Knight and not a tour

Have a great day🙋🏻‍♂️